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How To Create A Circle Of Love

This morning, as I was waking and still in the liminal space between the Dream World and the physical world, I felt my heart expand toward infinity. 

 

I wanted to share that heart-expansion feeling, so I began thinking of people in my life. I imagined I was sending them some of that heart-energy.

 

The more people I sent heart-energy to, the more people I wanted to send heart-energy to. 

 

I sent heart-energy to friends, family, acquaintances, old flames, people I used to work with, people I knew in various contexts but no longer regularly contact, even people I see here in my city but whose names I don’t know. 

 

I even sent heart-energy to the future, to people I don’t know yet who will help me with a situation I am planning.

 

And of course I sent heart-energy to my cats!

 

Anyone I could think of, I sent heart-energy to.

 

Now I feel grounded to the earth. 

I feel the Love that I AM, that we all are. 

I feel the JOY that comes from Love.

And I feel how connected I am to hundreds of other people.

 

How to Create Your Own Circle of Love

 

When To Do It

First thing upon awakening is the perfect time, as you’re fresh from the Dream World and haven’t yet clothed yourself in any of the cares of the day, but you can do this practice any time.

 

Start By Connecting To Your Heart

Center yourself by breathing into your heart space. Breathe into your heart and imagine it expanding to become three times its size. Keep breathing while imagining your heart expanding, growing towards infinity.

 

Imagine A Person

Now imagine someone you know. A loved one, perhaps. If you’re a visual thinker, picture their face in your mind. If you’re an audio thinker, say their name to yourself in your mind. If you feel people's energy, imagine the feel of this person.

 

Send Them Love

However you bring this person to you, hold them in your mind. Now imagine you are sending them some of the Love from the enormous wellspring of your heart.

 

Heart To Heart

Send your Love from your expanded heart, right to the other person's heart. A Heart-to-heart connection is the purest way to send heart energy, as our Hearts are timeless and connect us each to the great Love of the Universe.

 

Using A Color

the Love energy you send can be a particular color. The colors pink and green are often associated with heart energy, but you can use any color that feels like heart energy to you: pink, green, white, blue, purple, gold, any color (I like gold).

 

Using A Feeling

Or, you can simply FEEL some of the Love you feel in your expanded heart-space transfer to that person. You know what love feels like to you—just send that feeling to the other person.

 

Bless Them

Leave a little blessing of Love for the person you just imagined. You can now imagine a different person and send Love energy to them.

 

Grow Your Circle of Love

As you imagine and send Love to several people, you will feel your Circle of Love growing. All these people are connected to you, and through your heart-space, to one another. Together, you are a Circle of Love.

 

Questions About This Practice

 

  1. What if I think of a person I don’t like, or with whom I have conflicts?

This person came up in your mind for a reason. Over time, it is possible to subtly shift the dynamic between you or simply by sending that person Love on a regular basis. 

 

  1. What if I can’t imagine the person?

It doesn’t have to be strong imagining for this practice to work. Let your thoughts drift and people will come to mind. Even if it’s just a flash of remembrance, this practice can be powerful.

 

  1. Isn’t this just the Buddhist practice of Metta?

It’s very similar, yes! (Metta is the practice of loving-kindness, a kind of meditation that cultivates compassion and a more loving, connected state of mind. Read more about it with instructions here.)

 

As you practice your Circle of Love, it will become easier and your sense of love and connection will grow.

 

Here’s to growing our Circles of Love!

I’ve spent the past ten days in the beautiful Pacific Northwest, far from my present home in the northeast but closer, much closer, to my true spiritual home, and during this time one of my specific goals was to immerse myself into a deeper connection with Nature.  Though my home is in a semi-rural area, affording me an opportunity to frequently bike through rolling hills amid cornfields and farmhouses, I really don’t feel all that connected with the nature element of it usually.  Perhaps it’s because I don’t connect energetically with the space, or resist a deeper connection; perhaps it’s the human element in a long-inhabited space that has overwritten the elements of nature, but in any case I felt a huge difference in my little cabin in the forest, a short walk from the beach, easily moving into a space of love and appreciation for Nature and my place within it.  I spent several hours roaming the trails through the forest, meandering along the beach, and standing in the rain under the trees at night.

 

And then I upped the ante considerably and spent some time in a different forest last night.  

 

I entered the forest under a nearly-full moon, bright on a cloudless night, and instantly I felt a different sort of welcoming, an embrace, an invitation.  Through connecting with the trees who are themselves all connected and always aware of that connection to one another, to the earth, and to All That Is, I could reach back into time and feel roots tapping into the dawning of human consciousness on the planet with such primordial innocence that it took my breath away. 

 

At the same time I was aware of every possibility that continues to stretch before us in time: possibilities for each one of us and all the myriad possibilities available at any given moment, every choice, every road taken and not taken, and I felt vast, knowing that I was a part of everything that ever has been and everything still yet to come.  I was as tall as the trees and as bright as the moon, and I turned my face toward her, accepting the spotlight, fully acknowledging my completeness and perfection.

 

To say this was a joyous and magical experience doesn’t quite do it justice.

 

But it served as a wonderful reminder, one that I will take back to my home with me and one that I offer you now, that our connection with Nature is an essential of simply being human.  It’s part of us, and to deny it is to deny part of Self.

 

Afterwards, I channeled this:

 

There is of course value in connecting with animals, trees, and other elements of what you consider to be “nature”. These elements, are of course, part of your home, part of your world, and are as such connected to you, to humans, in a very intimate way.  You share space.  You share air.  You share resources.  Not only that, but you share in the creation of your world, the global creation of the reality you know as life on the physical plane.  And because of that, there is an undying connection between you as a human and ALL of the so-called “natural” elements of Nature.

 

Some of you feel this connection more deeply, more emotionally, than others.  Some feel a return, when confronted with Nature, especially in her most raw state, to that innocent and childlike state of simply Being, existing, that lies dormant within all of you.  And as such, you feel it deeply when one of nature’s children, one element of the intricate tapestry that is constantly being woven and re-created, moves through natural transition into another state.  There is, for you, a deep sense of loss, as there is the recognition not only of the timelessness of transformation and the cycles of life on the planet, but also of the transference of human-type connection to an element of nature.  You can mostly only experience connection with nature by transferring those feelings to a more human perspective, and when loss of an element of nature, such as a pet or tree, occurs, there is transference to the human state of grief.

 

We have mentioned the energetic connections between you and your pets and we wish to elaborate.  Again, not only is there a very real symbolic connection here (discovery of Self, of Love, of perspective: these things were gained through and with your interaction), but also there HAVE in most cases indeed been some past-life associations.  Though most animals live lives in mainly hive-type soul arrangements, there is a constancy of energy that can flow generation after generation through one individual animal to another, and even of course crossing boundaries of species.  There has been for many of you, then, a common thread through many lifetimes of connection with various elements of nature, and it is this thread, now running through you and the pets you love, that has touched this present lifetime.

 

The lessons from connection to Nature are many and varied and often depend on the individual, but regardless of perspective there is ALWAYS growth opportunity through human connection with Nature.  After all, it is your home.  It is your LIFE.  To deny Nature is denying an aspect of Self, and to fully EMBRACE Nature, to ACCEPT it in all its splendor, ugliness, and beauty, is a HUGE step in actually accepting your Self.